Special Date

My husband has turned into quite a reader – he’s got nothing on the ravenous reader,  of course, but he eats up at  a couple of books a month.  Time was, he did well to slog through a novel a year.  As a matter of fact, I used to buy him a hardcover book on his birthday in October, and that usually lasted him until our anniversary in May when I’d get him another one.

No more.  In fact, our anniversary’s coming up next week, and I’m having a hard time thinking of an appropriate a gift.  Oh, I could buy him a book – in fact, he’s got his eye on the new Michael Connolly noveI.  But I feel the need to do something special -it’s our 35th anniversary, and that seems worthy of more than the usual gift, or even of dinner and a movie.  At this point in our relationship, we tend to celebrate with experieces, rather than with objects.  After all, when you’ve been married this long, what more “stuff” do you really need? (My husband would qualify that by saying, “only if the stuff in mind has four very large tires and an even larger engine.”)

I was thinking about a concert – I could get tickets to any number of events coming up.  Taylor Swift tickets, Zac Brown Band tickets,Elton John Tickets, Dane Cook ticekts– even something called Spiderman Turn Off The Dark tickets.  All advertised on line and easy to get – not necessarily cheap, but easy.

But there’s something I’m always wanting to do on our anniversary, and for one reason or another we never have the chance.  We were married in a small chapel in the middle of Greenfield Village, a park of historic homes founded by the Ford family.  In fact, the Martha Mary Chapel inside the village was built in the early 1900’s by Henry Ford, and named in honor of his mother and mother in law.  Anyway, I always think it would be so romantic to go back there on our anniversary date, and go inside the chapel right at noon, the time of our wedding, and then go have lunch in the Dearborn Inn down the street where we held our reception.

In 35 years, we’ve never once done that.

I think it’s about time we did.

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8 thoughts on “Special Date

  1. I love Greenfield Village and think a revisit there would be a great way to celebrate. Are you considering doing a vow re-commitment? I have friends who did this at the 25-year milestone. My husband and I celebrate 42 years this year, so we are living proof that you don’t need more than one ceremony. Just offering the thought in case it resonates. . . .

  2. I remember Greenfield Village! It’s beautiful! I definitely think you should luncheon there; my husband (who, by the way, would also love four tires and a big engine, preferrably under a Mercedes) and I always have a meal at the Spanish restaurant in which we had our reception. I love that tradition. Congratulations on your 35 years; what a testimony to committment and love!

  3. Thanks, all! The day is complicated by the fact that it’s Mother’s Day, but even more so by the installation ceremony for our new minister, which will likely involve our choir (meaning us, particularly my husband). But maybe we can still sneak in our little walk down memory lane 🙂

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